> Your views are very sweet and I'm sure they are well-intentioned, just
> don't expect them to carry much weight these days - outside any sort
> of nursery.
>
> --
> Rob
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No Rob, you are spreading innuendo and fact that you are pulling off
websites that have no real credibility.

When you say that this group is this specific way, and this group is
this specific way - you are pigeon holing people and not giving them
the respect they are due.

Anywho... I am a grown up with a substantial amount of responsibility
because the man I married preferred to be drunk 24-7, rather than help
his wife take care of the bills, the children and live a good life.

Instead, I had to bear rants, abuse and cruelity and sure, say I was
at fault but our children was not.

So would you have me now believe that all men are this way?  Because
one is - all are?

I have seen many very sweet, kind and gentle men - who are great
husbands and fathers and friends. It is wrong to believe if one is
blue all are blue, or one is green all a green.

We all live very different lives and are molded by same.  Our opinions
are different as are our thoughts, goals and dreams.

You may think I come from a 'nursery' - yet my life has been
incredibly difficult.  More than could be imagined.

Maybe I am lucky in that I still believe people can be good, sincere,
trusted and good to me.

deb :)