I think that people - are people - are people and we all want to be
treated equally, regardless of age, gender and race.

Of course there are people that will take advantage of others, be they
male or female but do not blame all the males when your spouse is
abusive and controlling, or blame all of the females when you spouse
is same.

Its not because of their gender, its because of who they are and their
personality.

Deb.