Hello. As I have achieved what I view as personal success over the years, 
working hard, and as a result, buying my property outright, I have never 
considered the need for a long lasting relationship. I'm too busy enjoying 
my success and like to go out when I want to, no questions asked, and I've 
never liked children. They bore me. Frankly, I prefer one-night encounters, 
maybe three to four 'dates' at most, then I employ the action of ending the 
short time we have enjoyed together. I have never met anyone who I would 
seriously consider serving as a long-term girlfriend and I certainly have no 
marital plans whatsoever.  But I'm happy. I don't understand those who bleat 
that they are all alone. It's easy (for me anyway) to meet new people as and 
when it takes me. I love meeting new females and enjoy the challenge of 
seduction, just never considered going over the three weeks, by which time, 
the female is generally looking at a long-lasting romance with me.
My question to you singles in the UK, should I feel guilty for causing so 
much distress to those who have, without explanation, been dumped? I do 
sometimes lie awake at night and feel somewhat ashamed for causing distress 
to many of my past encounters, whose names I have not even bothered to 
remember. Thanks for reading.