Where to start ...

Well my ex girlfriend and I had a baby whos one years old now. The csa \ job 
centre have contacted her about my details which she is refusing to provide. 
As we have a verbal agreement between her and I and I pay her every week in 
cash so we don't see the need for an agency to get involved (is that nieve 
thinking?) ... that phoned her today requesting an interview where they will 
discuss her failure to give any details and reduce her benefit by 40% ... I 
have been made redundant recently and have just starting claiming benefits. 
I have no problem with paying for my children, but as we have an agreement 
between us can they really do this ?

I told her it might be a lot less head ache to provide my details ?

If she gives them my details what happens next ? will they take the money 
out of my benefits directly.

Is there anyway to get them out of our lives ? (this is causing her so much 
upset!)

Appreciate any advice.

It's a Job Centre Plus thing, CSA won't be involved until Job Centre Plus 
complete what's called CS1 action and pass it across to CSA.

If you're on benefits yourself, it'll be a straight £5 per week deduction 
and it'll be taken directly from your benefits.  It can take a while before 
Job Centre Plus start taking it from you though...

"James"  wrote in message 
news:Rd2dnWn0vf78HF3bnZ2dnUVZ8sKlnZ2d@bt.com...
> Where to start ...
>
> Well my ex girlfriend and I had a baby whos one years old now. The csa \ 
> job centre have contacted her about my details which she is refusing to 
> provide. As we have a verbal agreement between her and I and I pay her 
> every week in cash so we don't see the need for an agency to get involved 
> (is that nieve thinking?) ... that phoned her today requesting an 
> interview where they will discuss her failure to give any details and 
> reduce her benefit by 40% ... I have been made redundant recently and have 
> just starting claiming benefits. I have no problem with paying for my 
> children, but as we have an agreement between us can they really do this ?
>
> I told her it might be a lot less head ache to provide my details ?
>
> If she gives them my details what happens next ? will they take the money 
> out of my benefits directly.
>
> Is there anyway to get them out of our lives ? (this is causing her so 
> much upset!)
>
> Appreciate any advice.
>
>

As Toffes says if shes on benefits and your on benefits it's 5 something a 
week and she must comlpy with their demands for information or they will 
reduce her benefit.



"Toffee"  wrote in message 
news:6A0wi.13795$ph7.3117@newsfe5-win.ntli.net...
> It's a Job Centre Plus thing, CSA won't be involved until Job Centre Plus 
> complete what's called CS1 action and pass it across to CSA.
>
> If you're on benefits yourself, it'll be a straight £5 per week deduction 
> and it'll be taken directly from your benefits.  It can take a while 
> before Job Centre Plus start taking it from you though...
>
> "James"  wrote in message 
> news:Rd2dnWn0vf78HF3bnZ2dnUVZ8sKlnZ2d@bt.com...
>> Where to start ...
>>
>> Well my ex girlfriend and I had a baby whos one years old now. The csa \ 
>> job centre have contacted her about my details which she is refusing to 
>> provide. As we have a verbal agreement between her and I and I pay her 
>> every week in cash so we don't see the need for an agency to get involved 
>> (is that nieve thinking?) ... that phoned her today requesting an 
>> interview where they will discuss her failure to give any details and 
>> reduce her benefit by 40% ... I have been made redundant recently and 
>> have just starting claiming benefits. I have no problem with paying for 
>> my children, but as we have an agreement between us can they really do 
>> this ?
>>
>> I told her it might be a lot less head ache to provide my details ?
>>
>> If she gives them my details what happens next ? will they take the money 
>> out of my benefits directly.
>>
>> Is there anyway to get them out of our lives ? (this is causing her so 
>> much upset!)
>>
>> Appreciate any advice.
>>
>>
>
>

It's a Job Centre Plus thing, CSA won't be involved until Job Centre Plus 
complete what's called CS1 action and pass it across to CSA.

If you're on benefits yourself, it'll be a straight £5 per week deduction 
and it'll be taken directly from your benefits.  It can take a while before 
Job Centre Plus start taking it from you though...

"James"  wrote in message 
news:Rd2dnWn0vf78HF3bnZ2dnUVZ8sKlnZ2d@bt.com...
> Where to start ...
>
> Well my ex girlfriend and I had a baby whos one years old now. The csa \ 
> job centre have contacted her about my details which she is refusing to 
> provide. As we have a verbal agreement between her and I and I pay her 
> every week in cash so we don't see the need for an agency to get involved 
> (is that nieve thinking?) ... that phoned her today requesting an 
> interview where they will discuss her failure to give any details and 
> reduce her benefit by 40% ... I have been made redundant recently and have 
> just starting claiming benefits. I have no problem with paying for my 
> children, but as we have an agreement between us can they really do this ?
>
> I told her it might be a lot less head ache to provide my details ?
>
> If she gives them my details what happens next ? will they take the money 
> out of my benefits directly.
>
> Is there anyway to get them out of our lives ? (this is causing her so 
> much upset!)
>
> Appreciate any advice.
>
>

As Toffes says if shes on benefits and your on benefits it's 5 something a 
week and she must comlpy with their demands for information or they will 
reduce her benefit.



"Toffee"  wrote in message 
news:6A0wi.13795$ph7.3117@newsfe5-win.ntli.net...
> It's a Job Centre Plus thing, CSA won't be involved until Job Centre Plus 
> complete what's called CS1 action and pass it across to CSA.
>
> If you're on benefits yourself, it'll be a straight £5 per week deduction 
> and it'll be taken directly from your benefits.  It can take a while 
> before Job Centre Plus start taking it from you though...
>
> "James"  wrote in message 
> news:Rd2dnWn0vf78HF3bnZ2dnUVZ8sKlnZ2d@bt.com...
>> Where to start ...
>>
>> Well my ex girlfriend and I had a baby whos one years old now. The csa \ 
>> job centre have contacted her about my details which she is refusing to 
>> provide. As we have a verbal agreement between her and I and I pay her 
>> every week in cash so we don't see the need for an agency to get involved 
>> (is that nieve thinking?) ... that phoned her today requesting an 
>> interview where they will discuss her failure to give any details and 
>> reduce her benefit by 40% ... I have been made redundant recently and 
>> have just starting claiming benefits. I have no problem with paying for 
>> my children, but as we have an agreement between us can they really do 
>> this ?
>>
>> I told her it might be a lot less head ache to provide my details ?
>>
>> If she gives them my details what happens next ? will they take the money 
>> out of my benefits directly.
>>
>> Is there anyway to get them out of our lives ? (this is causing her so 
>> much upset!)
>>
>> Appreciate any advice.
>>
>>
>
>

It's a Job Centre Plus thing, CSA won't be involved until Job Centre Plus 
complete what's called CS1 action and pass it across to CSA.

If you're on benefits yourself, it'll be a straight £5 per week deduction 
and it'll be taken directly from your benefits.  It can take a while before 
Job Centre Plus start taking it from you though...

"James"  wrote in message 
news:Rd2dnWn0vf78HF3bnZ2dnUVZ8sKlnZ2d@bt.com...
> Where to start ...
>
> Well my ex girlfriend and I had a baby whos one years old now. The csa \ 
> job centre have contacted her about my details which she is refusing to 
> provide. As we have a verbal agreement between her and I and I pay her 
> every week in cash so we don't see the need for an agency to get involved 
> (is that nieve thinking?) ... that phoned her today requesting an 
> interview where they will discuss her failure to give any details and 
> reduce her benefit by 40% ... I have been made redundant recently and have 
> just starting claiming benefits. I have no problem with paying for my 
> children, but as we have an agreement between us can they really do this ?
>
> I told her it might be a lot less head ache to provide my details ?
>
> If she gives them my details what happens next ? will they take the money 
> out of my benefits directly.
>
> Is there anyway to get them out of our lives ? (this is causing her so 
> much upset!)
>
> Appreciate any advice.
>
>

As Toffes says if shes on benefits and your on benefits it's 5 something a 
week and she must comlpy with their demands for information or they will 
reduce her benefit.



"Toffee"  wrote in message 
news:6A0wi.13795$ph7.3117@newsfe5-win.ntli.net...
> It's a Job Centre Plus thing, CSA won't be involved until Job Centre Plus 
> complete what's called CS1 action and pass it across to CSA.
>
> If you're on benefits yourself, it'll be a straight £5 per week deduction 
> and it'll be taken directly from your benefits.  It can take a while 
> before Job Centre Plus start taking it from you though...
>
> "James"  wrote in message 
> news:Rd2dnWn0vf78HF3bnZ2dnUVZ8sKlnZ2d@bt.com...
>> Where to start ...
>>
>> Well my ex girlfriend and I had a baby whos one years old now. The csa \ 
>> job centre have contacted her about my details which she is refusing to 
>> provide. As we have a verbal agreement between her and I and I pay her 
>> every week in cash so we don't see the need for an agency to get involved 
>> (is that nieve thinking?) ... that phoned her today requesting an 
>> interview where they will discuss her failure to give any details and 
>> reduce her benefit by 40% ... I have been made redundant recently and 
>> have just starting claiming benefits. I have no problem with paying for 
>> my children, but as we have an agreement between us can they really do 
>> this ?
>>
>> I told her it might be a lot less head ache to provide my details ?
>>
>> If she gives them my details what happens next ? will they take the money 
>> out of my benefits directly.
>>
>> Is there anyway to get them out of our lives ? (this is causing her so 
>> much upset!)
>>
>> Appreciate any advice.
>>
>>
>
>

It's a Job Centre Plus thing, CSA won't be involved until Job Centre Plus 
complete what's called CS1 action and pass it across to CSA.

If you're on benefits yourself, it'll be a straight £5 per week deduction 
and it'll be taken directly from your benefits.  It can take a while before 
Job Centre Plus start taking it from you though...

"James"  wrote in message 
news:Rd2dnWn0vf78HF3bnZ2dnUVZ8sKlnZ2d@bt.com...
> Where to start ...
>
> Well my ex girlfriend and I had a baby whos one years old now. The csa \ 
> job centre have contacted her about my details which she is refusing to 
> provide. As we have a verbal agreement between her and I and I pay her 
> every week in cash so we don't see the need for an agency to get involved 
> (is that nieve thinking?) ... that phoned her today requesting an 
> interview where they will discuss her failure to give any details and 
> reduce her benefit by 40% ... I have been made redundant recently and have 
> just starting claiming benefits. I have no problem with paying for my 
> children, but as we have an agreement between us can they really do this ?
>
> I told her it might be a lot less head ache to provide my details ?
>
> If she gives them my details what happens next ? will they take the money 
> out of my benefits directly.
>
> Is there anyway to get them out of our lives ? (this is causing her so 
> much upset!)
>
> Appreciate any advice.
>
>

As Toffes says if shes on benefits and your on benefits it's 5 something a 
week and she must comlpy with their demands for information or they will 
reduce her benefit.



"Toffee"  wrote in message 
news:6A0wi.13795$ph7.3117@newsfe5-win.ntli.net...
> It's a Job Centre Plus thing, CSA won't be involved until Job Centre Plus 
> complete what's called CS1 action and pass it across to CSA.
>
> If you're on benefits yourself, it'll be a straight £5 per week deduction 
> and it'll be taken directly from your benefits.  It can take a while 
> before Job Centre Plus start taking it from you though...
>
> "James"  wrote in message 
> news:Rd2dnWn0vf78HF3bnZ2dnUVZ8sKlnZ2d@bt.com...
>> Where to start ...
>>
>> Well my ex girlfriend and I had a baby whos one years old now. The csa \ 
>> job centre have contacted her about my details which she is refusing to 
>> provide. As we have a verbal agreement between her and I and I pay her 
>> every week in cash so we don't see the need for an agency to get involved 
>> (is that nieve thinking?) ... that phoned her today requesting an 
>> interview where they will discuss her failure to give any details and 
>> reduce her benefit by 40% ... I have been made redundant recently and 
>> have just starting claiming benefits. I have no problem with paying for 
>> my children, but as we have an agreement between us can they really do 
>> this ?
>>
>> I told her it might be a lot less head ache to provide my details ?
>>
>> If she gives them my details what happens next ? will they take the money 
>> out of my benefits directly.
>>
>> Is there anyway to get them out of our lives ? (this is causing her so 
>> much upset!)
>>
>> Appreciate any advice.
>>
>>
>
>

It's a Job Centre Plus thing, CSA won't be involved until Job Centre Plus 
complete what's called CS1 action and pass it across to CSA.

If you're on benefits yourself, it'll be a straight £5 per week deduction 
and it'll be taken directly from your benefits.  It can take a while before 
Job Centre Plus start taking it from you though...

"James"  wrote in message 
news:Rd2dnWn0vf78HF3bnZ2dnUVZ8sKlnZ2d@bt.com...
> Where to start ...
>
> Well my ex girlfriend and I had a baby whos one years old now. The csa \ 
> job centre have contacted her about my details which she is refusing to 
> provide. As we have a verbal agreement between her and I and I pay her 
> every week in cash so we don't see the need for an agency to get involved 
> (is that nieve thinking?) ... that phoned her today requesting an 
> interview where they will discuss her failure to give any details and 
> reduce her benefit by 40% ... I have been made redundant recently and have 
> just starting claiming benefits. I have no problem with paying for my 
> children, but as we have an agreement between us can they really do this ?
>
> I told her it might be a lot less head ache to provide my details ?
>
> If she gives them my details what happens next ? will they take the money 
> out of my benefits directly.
>
> Is there anyway to get them out of our lives ? (this is causing her so 
> much upset!)
>
> Appreciate any advice.
>
>

As Toffes says if shes on benefits and your on benefits it's 5 something a 
week and she must comlpy with their demands for information or they will 
reduce her benefit.



"Toffee"  wrote in message 
news:6A0wi.13795$ph7.3117@newsfe5-win.ntli.net...
> It's a Job Centre Plus thing, CSA won't be involved until Job Centre Plus 
> complete what's called CS1 action and pass it across to CSA.
>
> If you're on benefits yourself, it'll be a straight £5 per week deduction 
> and it'll be taken directly from your benefits.  It can take a while 
> before Job Centre Plus start taking it from you though...
>
> "James"  wrote in message 
> news:Rd2dnWn0vf78HF3bnZ2dnUVZ8sKlnZ2d@bt.com...
>> Where to start ...
>>
>> Well my ex girlfriend and I had a baby whos one years old now. The csa \ 
>> job centre have contacted her about my details which she is refusing to 
>> provide. As we have a verbal agreement between her and I and I pay her 
>> every week in cash so we don't see the need for an agency to get involved 
>> (is that nieve thinking?) ... that phoned her today requesting an 
>> interview where they will discuss her failure to give any details and 
>> reduce her benefit by 40% ... I have been made redundant recently and 
>> have just starting claiming benefits. I have no problem with paying for 
>> my children, but as we have an agreement between us can they really do 
>> this ?
>>
>> I told her it might be a lot less head ache to provide my details ?
>>
>> If she gives them my details what happens next ? will they take the money 
>> out of my benefits directly.
>>
>> Is there anyway to get them out of our lives ? (this is causing her so 
>> much upset!)
>>
>> Appreciate any advice.
>>
>>
>
>

It's a Job Centre Plus thing, CSA won't be involved until Job Centre Plus 
complete what's called CS1 action and pass it across to CSA.

If you're on benefits yourself, it'll be a straight £5 per week deduction 
and it'll be taken directly from your benefits.  It can take a while before 
Job Centre Plus start taking it from you though...

"James"  wrote in message 
news:Rd2dnWn0vf78HF3bnZ2dnUVZ8sKlnZ2d@bt.com...
> Where to start ...
>
> Well my ex girlfriend and I had a baby whos one years old now. The csa \ 
> job centre have contacted her about my details which she is refusing to 
> provide. As we have a verbal agreement between her and I and I pay her 
> every week in cash so we don't see the need for an agency to get involved 
> (is that nieve thinking?) ... that phoned her today requesting an 
> interview where they will discuss her failure to give any details and 
> reduce her benefit by 40% ... I have been made redundant recently and have 
> just starting claiming benefits. I have no problem with paying for my 
> children, but as we have an agreement between us can they really do this ?
>
> I told her it might be a lot less head ache to provide my details ?
>
> If she gives them my details what happens next ? will they take the money 
> out of my benefits directly.
>
> Is there anyway to get them out of our lives ? (this is causing her so 
> much upset!)
>
> Appreciate any advice.
>
>

As Toffes says if shes on benefits and your on benefits it's 5 something a 
week and she must comlpy with their demands for information or they will 
reduce her benefit.



"Toffee"  wrote in message 
news:6A0wi.13795$ph7.3117@newsfe5-win.ntli.net...
> It's a Job Centre Plus thing, CSA won't be involved until Job Centre Plus 
> complete what's called CS1 action and pass it across to CSA.
>
> If you're on benefits yourself, it'll be a straight £5 per week deduction 
> and it'll be taken directly from your benefits.  It can take a while 
> before Job Centre Plus start taking it from you though...
>
> "James"  wrote in message 
> news:Rd2dnWn0vf78HF3bnZ2dnUVZ8sKlnZ2d@bt.com...
>> Where to start ...
>>
>> Well my ex girlfriend and I had a baby whos one years old now. The csa \ 
>> job centre have contacted her about my details which she is refusing to 
>> provide. As we have a verbal agreement between her and I and I pay her 
>> every week in cash so we don't see the need for an agency to get involved 
>> (is that nieve thinking?) ... that phoned her today requesting an 
>> interview where they will discuss her failure to give any details and 
>> reduce her benefit by 40% ... I have been made redundant recently and 
>> have just starting claiming benefits. I have no problem with paying for 
>> my children, but as we have an agreement between us can they really do 
>> this ?
>>
>> I told her it might be a lot less head ache to provide my details ?
>>
>> If she gives them my details what happens next ? will they take the money 
>> out of my benefits directly.
>>
>> Is there anyway to get them out of our lives ? (this is causing her so 
>> much upset!)
>>
>> Appreciate any advice.
>>
>>
>
>

On Aug 13, 6:58 pm, "Fletcher"  wrote:
> As Toffes says if shes on benefits and your on benefits it's 5 something a
> week and she must comlpy with their demands for information or they will
> reduce her benefit.
>
> "Toffee"  wrote in message
>
> news:6A0wi.13795$ph7.3117@newsfe5-win.ntli.net...
>
>
>
> > It's a Job Centre Plus thing, CSA won't be involved until Job Centre Plus
> > complete what's called CS1 action and pass it across to CSA.
>
> > If you're on benefits yourself, it'll be a straight £5 per week deduction
> > and it'll be taken directly from your benefits.  It can take a while
> > before Job Centre Plus start taking it from you though...
>
> > "James"  wrote in message
> >news:Rd2dnWn0vf78HF3bnZ2dnUVZ8sKlnZ2d@bt.com...
> >> Where to start ...
>
> >> Well my ex girlfriend and I had a baby whos one years old now. The csa> >> job centre have contacted her about my details which she is refusing to
> >> provide. As we have a verbal agreement between her and I and I pay her
> >> every week in cash so we don't see the need for an agency to get involved
> >> (is that nieve thinking?) ... that phoned her today requesting an
> >> interview where they will discuss her failure to give any details and
> >> reduce her benefit by 40% ... I have been made redundant recently and
> >> have just starting claiming benefits. I have no problem with paying for
> >> my children, but as we have an agreement between us can they really do
> >> this ?
>
> >> I told her it might be a lot less head ache to provide my details ?
>
> >> If she gives them my details what happens next ? will they take the money
> >> out of my benefits directly.
>
> >> Is there anyway to get them out of our lives ? (this is causing her so
> >> much upset!)
>
> >> Appreciate any advice.- Hide quoted text -
>
> - Show quoted text -

If you were both working and didn't claim benefits and had a private
agreement the CSA would leave you alone.

Being on benefits means you are owned/chased/hounded by the state. I
think it is the parent with care (PWC) being on benefits that triggers
it - not the Non Resident Parent (you).

It's a Job Centre Plus thing, CSA won't be involved until Job Centre Plus 
complete what's called CS1 action and pass it across to CSA.

If you're on benefits yourself, it'll be a straight £5 per week deduction 
and it'll be taken directly from your benefits.  It can take a while before 
Job Centre Plus start taking it from you though...

"James"  wrote in message 
news:Rd2dnWn0vf78HF3bnZ2dnUVZ8sKlnZ2d@bt.com...
> Where to start ...
>
> Well my ex girlfriend and I had a baby whos one years old now. The csa \ 
> job centre have contacted her about my details which she is refusing to 
> provide. As we have a verbal agreement between her and I and I pay her 
> every week in cash so we don't see the need for an agency to get involved 
> (is that nieve thinking?) ... that phoned her today requesting an 
> interview where they will discuss her failure to give any details and 
> reduce her benefit by 40% ... I have been made redundant recently and have 
> just starting claiming benefits. I have no problem with paying for my 
> children, but as we have an agreement between us can they really do this ?
>
> I told her it might be a lot less head ache to provide my details ?
>
> If she gives them my details what happens next ? will they take the money 
> out of my benefits directly.
>
> Is there anyway to get them out of our lives ? (this is causing her so 
> much upset!)
>
> Appreciate any advice.
>
>

As Toffes says if shes on benefits and your on benefits it's 5 something a 
week and she must comlpy with their demands for information or they will 
reduce her benefit.



"Toffee"  wrote in message 
news:6A0wi.13795$ph7.3117@newsfe5-win.ntli.net...
> It's a Job Centre Plus thing, CSA won't be involved until Job Centre Plus 
> complete what's called CS1 action and pass it across to CSA.
>
> If you're on benefits yourself, it'll be a straight £5 per week deduction 
> and it'll be taken directly from your benefits.  It can take a while 
> before Job Centre Plus start taking it from you though...
>
> "James"  wrote in message 
> news:Rd2dnWn0vf78HF3bnZ2dnUVZ8sKlnZ2d@bt.com...
>> Where to start ...
>>
>> Well my ex girlfriend and I had a baby whos one years old now. The csa \ 
>> job centre have contacted her about my details which she is refusing to 
>> provide. As we have a verbal agreement between her and I and I pay her 
>> every week in cash so we don't see the need for an agency to get involved 
>> (is that nieve thinking?) ... that phoned her today requesting an 
>> interview where they will discuss her failure to give any details and 
>> reduce her benefit by 40% ... I have been made redundant recently and 
>> have just starting claiming benefits. I have no problem with paying for 
>> my children, but as we have an agreement between us can they really do 
>> this ?
>>
>> I told her it might be a lot less head ache to provide my details ?
>>
>> If she gives them my details what happens next ? will they take the money 
>> out of my benefits directly.
>>
>> Is there anyway to get them out of our lives ? (this is causing her so 
>> much upset!)
>>
>> Appreciate any advice.
>>
>>
>
>

On Aug 13, 6:58 pm, "Fletcher"  wrote:
> As Toffes says if shes on benefits and your on benefits it's 5 something a
> week and she must comlpy with their demands for information or they will
> reduce her benefit.
>
> "Toffee"  wrote in message
>
> news:6A0wi.13795$ph7.3117@newsfe5-win.ntli.net...
>
>
>
> > It's a Job Centre Plus thing, CSA won't be involved until Job Centre Plus
> > complete what's called CS1 action and pass it across to CSA.
>
> > If you're on benefits yourself, it'll be a straight £5 per week deduction
> > and it'll be taken directly from your benefits.  It can take a while
> > before Job Centre Plus start taking it from you though...
>
> > "James"  wrote in message
> >news:Rd2dnWn0vf78HF3bnZ2dnUVZ8sKlnZ2d@bt.com...
> >> Where to start ...
>
> >> Well my ex girlfriend and I had a baby whos one years old now. The csa> >> job centre have contacted her about my details which she is refusing to
> >> provide. As we have a verbal agreement between her and I and I pay her
> >> every week in cash so we don't see the need for an agency to get involved
> >> (is that nieve thinking?) ... that phoned her today requesting an
> >> interview where they will discuss her failure to give any details and
> >> reduce her benefit by 40% ... I have been made redundant recently and
> >> have just starting claiming benefits. I have no problem with paying for
> >> my children, but as we have an agreement between us can they really do
> >> this ?
>
> >> I told her it might be a lot less head ache to provide my details ?
>
> >> If she gives them my details what happens next ? will they take the money
> >> out of my benefits directly.
>
> >> Is there anyway to get them out of our lives ? (this is causing her so
> >> much upset!)
>
> >> Appreciate any advice.- Hide quoted text -
>
> - Show quoted text -

If you were both working and didn't claim benefits and had a private
agreement the CSA would leave you alone.

Being on benefits means you are owned/chased/hounded by the state. I
think it is the parent with care (PWC) being on benefits that triggers
it - not the Non Resident Parent (you).

It's a Job Centre Plus thing, CSA won't be involved until Job Centre Plus 
complete what's called CS1 action and pass it across to CSA.

If you're on benefits yourself, it'll be a straight £5 per week deduction 
and it'll be taken directly from your benefits.  It can take a while before 
Job Centre Plus start taking it from you though...

"James"  wrote in message 
news:Rd2dnWn0vf78HF3bnZ2dnUVZ8sKlnZ2d@bt.com...
> Where to start ...
>
> Well my ex girlfriend and I had a baby whos one years old now. The csa \ 
> job centre have contacted her about my details which she is refusing to 
> provide. As we have a verbal agreement between her and I and I pay her 
> every week in cash so we don't see the need for an agency to get involved 
> (is that nieve thinking?) ... that phoned her today requesting an 
> interview where they will discuss her failure to give any details and 
> reduce her benefit by 40% ... I have been made redundant recently and have 
> just starting claiming benefits. I have no problem with paying for my 
> children, but as we have an agreement between us can they really do this ?
>
> I told her it might be a lot less head ache to provide my details ?
>
> If she gives them my details what happens next ? will they take the money 
> out of my benefits directly.
>
> Is there anyway to get them out of our lives ? (this is causing her so 
> much upset!)
>
> Appreciate any advice.
>
>

As Toffes says if shes on benefits and your on benefits it's 5 something a 
week and she must comlpy with their demands for information or they will 
reduce her benefit.



"Toffee"  wrote in message 
news:6A0wi.13795$ph7.3117@newsfe5-win.ntli.net...
> It's a Job Centre Plus thing, CSA won't be involved until Job Centre Plus 
> complete what's called CS1 action and pass it across to CSA.
>
> If you're on benefits yourself, it'll be a straight £5 per week deduction 
> and it'll be taken directly from your benefits.  It can take a while 
> before Job Centre Plus start taking it from you though...
>
> "James"  wrote in message 
> news:Rd2dnWn0vf78HF3bnZ2dnUVZ8sKlnZ2d@bt.com...
>> Where to start ...
>>
>> Well my ex girlfriend and I had a baby whos one years old now. The csa \ 
>> job centre have contacted her about my details which she is refusing to 
>> provide. As we have a verbal agreement between her and I and I pay her 
>> every week in cash so we don't see the need for an agency to get involved 
>> (is that nieve thinking?) ... that phoned her today requesting an 
>> interview where they will discuss her failure to give any details and 
>> reduce her benefit by 40% ... I have been made redundant recently and 
>> have just starting claiming benefits. I have no problem with paying for 
>> my children, but as we have an agreement between us can they really do 
>> this ?
>>
>> I told her it might be a lot less head ache to provide my details ?
>>
>> If she gives them my details what happens next ? will they take the money 
>> out of my benefits directly.
>>
>> Is there anyway to get them out of our lives ? (this is causing her so 
>> much upset!)
>>
>> Appreciate any advice.
>>
>>
>
>

On Aug 13, 6:58 pm, "Fletcher"  wrote:
> As Toffes says if shes on benefits and your on benefits it's 5 something a
> week and she must comlpy with their demands for information or they will
> reduce her benefit.
>
> "Toffee"  wrote in message
>
> news:6A0wi.13795$ph7.3117@newsfe5-win.ntli.net...
>
>
>
> > It's a Job Centre Plus thing, CSA won't be involved until Job Centre Plus
> > complete what's called CS1 action and pass it across to CSA.
>
> > If you're on benefits yourself, it'll be a straight £5 per week deduction
> > and it'll be taken directly from your benefits.  It can take a while
> > before Job Centre Plus start taking it from you though...
>
> > "James"  wrote in message
> >news:Rd2dnWn0vf78HF3bnZ2dnUVZ8sKlnZ2d@bt.com...
> >> Where to start ...
>
> >> Well my ex girlfriend and I had a baby whos one years old now. The csa> >> job centre have contacted her about my details which she is refusing to
> >> provide. As we have a verbal agreement between her and I and I pay her
> >> every week in cash so we don't see the need for an agency to get involved
> >> (is that nieve thinking?) ... that phoned her today requesting an
> >> interview where they will discuss her failure to give any details and
> >> reduce her benefit by 40% ... I have been made redundant recently and
> >> have just starting claiming benefits. I have no problem with paying for
> >> my children, but as we have an agreement between us can they really do
> >> this ?
>
> >> I told her it might be a lot less head ache to provide my details ?
>
> >> If she gives them my details what happens next ? will they take the money
> >> out of my benefits directly.
>
> >> Is there anyway to get them out of our lives ? (this is causing her so
> >> much upset!)
>
> >> Appreciate any advice.- Hide quoted text -
>
> - Show quoted text -

If you were both working and didn't claim benefits and had a private
agreement the CSA would leave you alone.

Being on benefits means you are owned/chased/hounded by the state. I
think it is the parent with care (PWC) being on benefits that triggers
it - not the Non Resident Parent (you).

It's a Job Centre Plus thing, CSA won't be involved until Job Centre Plus 
complete what's called CS1 action and pass it across to CSA.

If you're on benefits yourself, it'll be a straight £5 per week deduction 
and it'll be taken directly from your benefits.  It can take a while before 
Job Centre Plus start taking it from you though...

"James"  wrote in message 
news:Rd2dnWn0vf78HF3bnZ2dnUVZ8sKlnZ2d@bt.com...
> Where to start ...
>
> Well my ex girlfriend and I had a baby whos one years old now. The csa \ 
> job centre have contacted her about my details which she is refusing to 
> provide. As we have a verbal agreement between her and I and I pay her 
> every week in cash so we don't see the need for an agency to get involved 
> (is that nieve thinking?) ... that phoned her today requesting an 
> interview where they will discuss her failure to give any details and 
> reduce her benefit by 40% ... I have been made redundant recently and have 
> just starting claiming benefits. I have no problem with paying for my 
> children, but as we have an agreement between us can they really do this ?
>
> I told her it might be a lot less head ache to provide my details ?
>
> If she gives them my details what happens next ? will they take the money 
> out of my benefits directly.
>
> Is there anyway to get them out of our lives ? (this is causing her so 
> much upset!)
>
> Appreciate any advice.
>
>

As Toffes says if shes on benefits and your on benefits it's 5 something a 
week and she must comlpy with their demands for information or they will 
reduce her benefit.



"Toffee"  wrote in message 
news:6A0wi.13795$ph7.3117@newsfe5-win.ntli.net...
> It's a Job Centre Plus thing, CSA won't be involved until Job Centre Plus 
> complete what's called CS1 action and pass it across to CSA.
>
> If you're on benefits yourself, it'll be a straight £5 per week deduction 
> and it'll be taken directly from your benefits.  It can take a while 
> before Job Centre Plus start taking it from you though...
>
> "James"  wrote in message 
> news:Rd2dnWn0vf78HF3bnZ2dnUVZ8sKlnZ2d@bt.com...
>> Where to start ...
>>
>> Well my ex girlfriend and I had a baby whos one years old now. The csa \ 
>> job centre have contacted her about my details which she is refusing to 
>> provide. As we have a verbal agreement between her and I and I pay her 
>> every week in cash so we don't see the need for an agency to get involved 
>> (is that nieve thinking?) ... that phoned her today requesting an 
>> interview where they will discuss her failure to give any details and 
>> reduce her benefit by 40% ... I have been made redundant recently and 
>> have just starting claiming benefits. I have no problem with paying for 
>> my children, but as we have an agreement between us can they really do 
>> this ?
>>
>> I told her it might be a lot less head ache to provide my details ?
>>
>> If she gives them my details what happens next ? will they take the money 
>> out of my benefits directly.
>>
>> Is there anyway to get them out of our lives ? (this is causing her so 
>> much upset!)
>>
>> Appreciate any advice.
>>
>>
>
>

On Aug 13, 6:58 pm, "Fletcher"  wrote:
> As Toffes says if shes on benefits and your on benefits it's 5 something a
> week and she must comlpy with their demands for information or they will
> reduce her benefit.
>
> "Toffee"  wrote in message
>
> news:6A0wi.13795$ph7.3117@newsfe5-win.ntli.net...
>
>
>
> > It's a Job Centre Plus thing, CSA won't be involved until Job Centre Plus
> > complete what's called CS1 action and pass it across to CSA.
>
> > If you're on benefits yourself, it'll be a straight £5 per week deduction
> > and it'll be taken directly from your benefits.  It can take a while
> > before Job Centre Plus start taking it from you though...
>
> > "James"  wrote in message
> >news:Rd2dnWn0vf78HF3bnZ2dnUVZ8sKlnZ2d@bt.com...
> >> Where to start ...
>
> >> Well my ex girlfriend and I had a baby whos one years old now. The csa> >> job centre have contacted her about my details which she is refusing to
> >> provide. As we have a verbal agreement between her and I and I pay her
> >> every week in cash so we don't see the need for an agency to get involved
> >> (is that nieve thinking?) ... that phoned her today requesting an
> >> interview where they will discuss her failure to give any details and
> >> reduce her benefit by 40% ... I have been made redundant recently and
> >> have just starting claiming benefits. I have no problem with paying for
> >> my children, but as we have an agreement between us can they really do
> >> this ?
>
> >> I told her it might be a lot less head ache to provide my details ?
>
> >> If she gives them my details what happens next ? will they take the money
> >> out of my benefits directly.
>
> >> Is there anyway to get them out of our lives ? (this is causing her so
> >> much upset!)
>
> >> Appreciate any advice.- Hide quoted text -
>
> - Show quoted text -

If you were both working and didn't claim benefits and had a private
agreement the CSA would leave you alone.

Being on benefits means you are owned/chased/hounded by the state. I
think it is the parent with care (PWC) being on benefits that triggers
it - not the Non Resident Parent (you).

It's a Job Centre Plus thing, CSA won't be involved until Job Centre Plus 
complete what's called CS1 action and pass it across to CSA.

If you're on benefits yourself, it'll be a straight £5 per week deduction 
and it'll be taken directly from your benefits.  It can take a while before 
Job Centre Plus start taking it from you though...

"James"  wrote in message 
news:Rd2dnWn0vf78HF3bnZ2dnUVZ8sKlnZ2d@bt.com...
> Where to start ...
>
> Well my ex girlfriend and I had a baby whos one years old now. The csa \ 
> job centre have contacted her about my details which she is refusing to 
> provide. As we have a verbal agreement between her and I and I pay her 
> every week in cash so we don't see the need for an agency to get involved 
> (is that nieve thinking?) ... that phoned her today requesting an 
> interview where they will discuss her failure to give any details and 
> reduce her benefit by 40% ... I have been made redundant recently and have 
> just starting claiming benefits. I have no problem with paying for my 
> children, but as we have an agreement between us can they really do this ?
>
> I told her it might be a lot less head ache to provide my details ?
>
> If she gives them my details what happens next ? will they take the money 
> out of my benefits directly.
>
> Is there anyway to get them out of our lives ? (this is causing her so 
> much upset!)
>
> Appreciate any advice.
>
>

As Toffes says if shes on benefits and your on benefits it's 5 something a 
week and she must comlpy with their demands for information or they will 
reduce her benefit.



"Toffee"  wrote in message 
news:6A0wi.13795$ph7.3117@newsfe5-win.ntli.net...
> It's a Job Centre Plus thing, CSA won't be involved until Job Centre Plus 
> complete what's called CS1 action and pass it across to CSA.
>
> If you're on benefits yourself, it'll be a straight £5 per week deduction 
> and it'll be taken directly from your benefits.  It can take a while 
> before Job Centre Plus start taking it from you though...
>
> "James"  wrote in message 
> news:Rd2dnWn0vf78HF3bnZ2dnUVZ8sKlnZ2d@bt.com...
>> Where to start ...
>>
>> Well my ex girlfriend and I had a baby whos one years old now. The csa \ 
>> job centre have contacted her about my details which she is refusing to 
>> provide. As we have a verbal agreement between her and I and I pay her 
>> every week in cash so we don't see the need for an agency to get involved 
>> (is that nieve thinking?) ... that phoned her today requesting an 
>> interview where they will discuss her failure to give any details and 
>> reduce her benefit by 40% ... I have been made redundant recently and 
>> have just starting claiming benefits. I have no problem with paying for 
>> my children, but as we have an agreement between us can they really do 
>> this ?
>>
>> I told her it might be a lot less head ache to provide my details ?
>>
>> If she gives them my details what happens next ? will they take the money 
>> out of my benefits directly.
>>
>> Is there anyway to get them out of our lives ? (this is causing her so 
>> much upset!)
>>
>> Appreciate any advice.
>>
>>
>
>

On Aug 13, 6:58 pm, "Fletcher"  wrote:
> As Toffes says if shes on benefits and your on benefits it's 5 something a
> week and she must comlpy with their demands for information or they will
> reduce her benefit.
>
> "Toffee"  wrote in message
>
> news:6A0wi.13795$ph7.3117@newsfe5-win.ntli.net...
>
>
>
> > It's a Job Centre Plus thing, CSA won't be involved until Job Centre Plus
> > complete what's called CS1 action and pass it across to CSA.
>
> > If you're on benefits yourself, it'll be a straight £5 per week deduction
> > and it'll be taken directly from your benefits.  It can take a while
> > before Job Centre Plus start taking it from you though...
>
> > "James"  wrote in message
> >news:Rd2dnWn0vf78HF3bnZ2dnUVZ8sKlnZ2d@bt.com...
> >> Where to start ...
>
> >> Well my ex girlfriend and I had a baby whos one years old now. The csa> >> job centre have contacted her about my details which she is refusing to
> >> provide. As we have a verbal agreement between her and I and I pay her
> >> every week in cash so we don't see the need for an agency to get involved
> >> (is that nieve thinking?) ... that phoned her today requesting an
> >> interview where they will discuss her failure to give any details and
> >> reduce her benefit by 40% ... I have been made redundant recently and
> >> have just starting claiming benefits. I have no problem with paying for
> >> my children, but as we have an agreement between us can they really do
> >> this ?
>
> >> I told her it might be a lot less head ache to provide my details ?
>
> >> If she gives them my details what happens next ? will they take the money
> >> out of my benefits directly.
>
> >> Is there anyway to get them out of our lives ? (this is causing her so
> >> much upset!)
>
> >> Appreciate any advice.- Hide quoted text -
>
> - Show quoted text -

If you were both working and didn't claim benefits and had a private
agreement the CSA would leave you alone.

Being on benefits means you are owned/chased/hounded by the state. I
think it is the parent with care (PWC) being on benefits that triggers
it - not the Non Resident Parent (you).

It's a Job Centre Plus thing, CSA won't be involved until Job Centre Plus 
complete what's called CS1 action and pass it across to CSA.

If you're on benefits yourself, it'll be a straight £5 per week deduction 
and it'll be taken directly from your benefits.  It can take a while before 
Job Centre Plus start taking it from you though...

"James"  wrote in message 
news:Rd2dnWn0vf78HF3bnZ2dnUVZ8sKlnZ2d@bt.com...
> Where to start ...
>
> Well my ex girlfriend and I had a baby whos one years old now. The csa \ 
> job centre have contacted her about my details which she is refusing to 
> provide. As we have a verbal agreement between her and I and I pay her 
> every week in cash so we don't see the need for an agency to get involved 
> (is that nieve thinking?) ... that phoned her today requesting an 
> interview where they will discuss her failure to give any details and 
> reduce her benefit by 40% ... I have been made redundant recently and have 
> just starting claiming benefits. I have no problem with paying for my 
> children, but as we have an agreement between us can they really do this ?
>
> I told her it might be a lot less head ache to provide my details ?
>
> If she gives them my details what happens next ? will they take the money 
> out of my benefits directly.
>
> Is there anyway to get them out of our lives ? (this is causing her so 
> much upset!)
>
> Appreciate any advice.
>
>

As Toffes says if shes on benefits and your on benefits it's 5 something a 
week and she must comlpy with their demands for information or they will 
reduce her benefit.



"Toffee"  wrote in message 
news:6A0wi.13795$ph7.3117@newsfe5-win.ntli.net...
> It's a Job Centre Plus thing, CSA won't be involved until Job Centre Plus 
> complete what's called CS1 action and pass it across to CSA.
>
> If you're on benefits yourself, it'll be a straight £5 per week deduction 
> and it'll be taken directly from your benefits.  It can take a while 
> before Job Centre Plus start taking it from you though...
>
> "James"  wrote in message 
> news:Rd2dnWn0vf78HF3bnZ2dnUVZ8sKlnZ2d@bt.com...
>> Where to start ...
>>
>> Well my ex girlfriend and I had a baby whos one years old now. The csa \ 
>> job centre have contacted her about my details which she is refusing to 
>> provide. As we have a verbal agreement between her and I and I pay her 
>> every week in cash so we don't see the need for an agency to get involved 
>> (is that nieve thinking?) ... that phoned her today requesting an 
>> interview where they will discuss her failure to give any details and 
>> reduce her benefit by 40% ... I have been made redundant recently and 
>> have just starting claiming benefits. I have no problem with paying for 
>> my children, but as we have an agreement between us can they really do 
>> this ?
>>
>> I told her it might be a lot less head ache to provide my details ?
>>
>> If she gives them my details what happens next ? will they take the money 
>> out of my benefits directly.
>>
>> Is there anyway to get them out of our lives ? (this is causing her so 
>> much upset!)
>>
>> Appreciate any advice.
>>
>>
>
>

On Aug 13, 6:58 pm, "Fletcher"  wrote:
> As Toffes says if shes on benefits and your on benefits it's 5 something a
> week and she must comlpy with their demands for information or they will
> reduce her benefit.
>
> "Toffee"  wrote in message
>
> news:6A0wi.13795$ph7.3117@newsfe5-win.ntli.net...
>
>
>
> > It's a Job Centre Plus thing, CSA won't be involved until Job Centre Plus
> > complete what's called CS1 action and pass it across to CSA.
>
> > If you're on benefits yourself, it'll be a straight £5 per week deduction
> > and it'll be taken directly from your benefits.  It can take a while
> > before Job Centre Plus start taking it from you though...
>
> > "James"  wrote in message
> >news:Rd2dnWn0vf78HF3bnZ2dnUVZ8sKlnZ2d@bt.com...
> >> Where to start ...
>
> >> Well my ex girlfriend and I had a baby whos one years old now. The csa> >> job centre have contacted her about my details which she is refusing to
> >> provide. As we have a verbal agreement between her and I and I pay her
> >> every week in cash so we don't see the need for an agency to get involved
> >> (is that nieve thinking?) ... that phoned her today requesting an
> >> interview where they will discuss her failure to give any details and
> >> reduce her benefit by 40% ... I have been made redundant recently and
> >> have just starting claiming benefits. I have no problem with paying for
> >> my children, but as we have an agreement between us can they really do
> >> this ?
>
> >> I told her it might be a lot less head ache to provide my details ?
>
> >> If she gives them my details what happens next ? will they take the money
> >> out of my benefits directly.
>
> >> Is there anyway to get them out of our lives ? (this is causing her so
> >> much upset!)
>
> >> Appreciate any advice.- Hide quoted text -
>
> - Show quoted text -

If you were both working and didn't claim benefits and had a private
agreement the CSA would leave you alone.

Being on benefits means you are owned/chased/hounded by the state. I
think it is the parent with care (PWC) being on benefits that triggers
it - not the Non Resident Parent (you).

It's a Job Centre Plus thing, CSA won't be involved until Job Centre Plus 
complete what's called CS1 action and pass it across to CSA.

If you're on benefits yourself, it'll be a straight £5 per week deduction 
and it'll be taken directly from your benefits.  It can take a while before 
Job Centre Plus start taking it from you though...

"James"  wrote in message 
news:Rd2dnWn0vf78HF3bnZ2dnUVZ8sKlnZ2d@bt.com...
> Where to start ...
>
> Well my ex girlfriend and I had a baby whos one years old now. The csa \ 
> job centre have contacted her about my details which she is refusing to 
> provide. As we have a verbal agreement between her and I and I pay her 
> every week in cash so we don't see the need for an agency to get involved 
> (is that nieve thinking?) ... that phoned her today requesting an 
> interview where they will discuss her failure to give any details and 
> reduce her benefit by 40% ... I have been made redundant recently and have 
> just starting claiming benefits. I have no problem with paying for my 
> children, but as we have an agreement between us can they really do this ?
>
> I told her it might be a lot less head ache to provide my details ?
>
> If she gives them my details what happens next ? will they take the money 
> out of my benefits directly.
>
> Is there anyway to get them out of our lives ? (this is causing her so 
> much upset!)
>
> Appreciate any advice.
>
>

As Toffes says if shes on benefits and your on benefits it's 5 something a 
week and she must comlpy with their demands for information or they will 
reduce her benefit.



"Toffee"  wrote in message 
news:6A0wi.13795$ph7.3117@newsfe5-win.ntli.net...
> It's a Job Centre Plus thing, CSA won't be involved until Job Centre Plus 
> complete what's called CS1 action and pass it across to CSA.
>
> If you're on benefits yourself, it'll be a straight £5 per week deduction 
> and it'll be taken directly from your benefits.  It can take a while 
> before Job Centre Plus start taking it from you though...
>
> "James"  wrote in message 
> news:Rd2dnWn0vf78HF3bnZ2dnUVZ8sKlnZ2d@bt.com...
>> Where to start ...
>>
>> Well my ex girlfriend and I had a baby whos one years old now. The csa \ 
>> job centre have contacted her about my details which she is refusing to 
>> provide. As we have a verbal agreement between her and I and I pay her 
>> every week in cash so we don't see the need for an agency to get involved 
>> (is that nieve thinking?) ... that phoned her today requesting an 
>> interview where they will discuss her failure to give any details and 
>> reduce her benefit by 40% ... I have been made redundant recently and 
>> have just starting claiming benefits. I have no problem with paying for 
>> my children, but as we have an agreement between us can they really do 
>> this ?
>>
>> I told her it might be a lot less head ache to provide my details ?
>>
>> If she gives them my details what happens next ? will they take the money 
>> out of my benefits directly.
>>
>> Is there anyway to get them out of our lives ? (this is causing her so 
>> much upset!)
>>
>> Appreciate any advice.
>>
>>
>
>

On Aug 13, 6:58 pm, "Fletcher"  wrote:
> As Toffes says if shes on benefits and your on benefits it's 5 something a
> week and she must comlpy with their demands for information or they will
> reduce her benefit.
>
> "Toffee"  wrote in message
>
> news:6A0wi.13795$ph7.3117@newsfe5-win.ntli.net...
>
>
>
> > It's a Job Centre Plus thing, CSA won't be involved until Job Centre Plus
> > complete what's called CS1 action and pass it across to CSA.
>
> > If you're on benefits yourself, it'll be a straight £5 per week deduction
> > and it'll be taken directly from your benefits.  It can take a while
> > before Job Centre Plus start taking it from you though...
>
> > "James"  wrote in message
> >news:Rd2dnWn0vf78HF3bnZ2dnUVZ8sKlnZ2d@bt.com...
> >> Where to start ...
>
> >> Well my ex girlfriend and I had a baby whos one years old now. The csa> >> job centre have contacted her about my details which she is refusing to
> >> provide. As we have a verbal agreement between her and I and I pay her
> >> every week in cash so we don't see the need for an agency to get involved
> >> (is that nieve thinking?) ... that phoned her today requesting an
> >> interview where they will discuss her failure to give any details and
> >> reduce her benefit by 40% ... I have been made redundant recently and
> >> have just starting claiming benefits. I have no problem with paying for
> >> my children, but as we have an agreement between us can they really do
> >> this ?
>
> >> I told her it might be a lot less head ache to provide my details ?
>
> >> If she gives them my details what happens next ? will they take the money
> >> out of my benefits directly.
>
> >> Is there anyway to get them out of our lives ? (this is causing her so
> >> much upset!)
>
> >> Appreciate any advice.- Hide quoted text -
>
> - Show quoted text -

If you were both working and didn't claim benefits and had a private
agreement the CSA would leave you alone.

Being on benefits means you are owned/chased/hounded by the state. I
think it is the parent with care (PWC) being on benefits that triggers
it - not the Non Resident Parent (you).

It's a Job Centre Plus thing, CSA won't be involved until Job Centre Plus 
complete what's called CS1 action and pass it across to CSA.

If you're on benefits yourself, it'll be a straight £5 per week deduction 
and it'll be taken directly from your benefits.  It can take a while before 
Job Centre Plus start taking it from you though...

"James"  wrote in message 
news:Rd2dnWn0vf78HF3bnZ2dnUVZ8sKlnZ2d@bt.com...
> Where to start ...
>
> Well my ex girlfriend and I had a baby whos one years old now. The csa \ 
> job centre have contacted her about my details which she is refusing to 
> provide. As we have a verbal agreement between her and I and I pay her 
> every week in cash so we don't see the need for an agency to get involved 
> (is that nieve thinking?) ... that phoned her today requesting an 
> interview where they will discuss her failure to give any details and 
> reduce her benefit by 40% ... I have been made redundant recently and have 
> just starting claiming benefits. I have no problem with paying for my 
> children, but as we have an agreement between us can they really do this ?
>
> I told her it might be a lot less head ache to provide my details ?
>
> If she gives them my details what happens next ? will they take the money 
> out of my benefits directly.
>
> Is there anyway to get them out of our lives ? (this is causing her so 
> much upset!)
>
> Appreciate any advice.
>
>

As Toffes says if shes on benefits and your on benefits it's 5 something a 
week and she must comlpy with their demands for information or they will 
reduce her benefit.



"Toffee"  wrote in message 
news:6A0wi.13795$ph7.3117@newsfe5-win.ntli.net...
> It's a Job Centre Plus thing, CSA won't be involved until Job Centre Plus 
> complete what's called CS1 action and pass it across to CSA.
>
> If you're on benefits yourself, it'll be a straight £5 per week deduction 
> and it'll be taken directly from your benefits.  It can take a while 
> before Job Centre Plus start taking it from you though...
>
> "James"  wrote in message 
> news:Rd2dnWn0vf78HF3bnZ2dnUVZ8sKlnZ2d@bt.com...
>> Where to start ...
>>
>> Well my ex girlfriend and I had a baby whos one years old now. The csa \ 
>> job centre have contacted her about my details which she is refusing to 
>> provide. As we have a verbal agreement between her and I and I pay her 
>> every week in cash so we don't see the need for an agency to get involved 
>> (is that nieve thinking?) ... that phoned her today requesting an 
>> interview where they will discuss her failure to give any details and 
>> reduce her benefit by 40% ... I have been made redundant recently and 
>> have just starting claiming benefits. I have no problem with paying for 
>> my children, but as we have an agreement between us can they really do 
>> this ?
>>
>> I told her it might be a lot less head ache to provide my details ?
>>
>> If she gives them my details what happens next ? will they take the money 
>> out of my benefits directly.
>>
>> Is there anyway to get them out of our lives ? (this is causing her so 
>> much upset!)
>>
>> Appreciate any advice.
>>
>>
>
>

On Aug 13, 6:58 pm, "Fletcher"  wrote:
> As Toffes says if shes on benefits and your on benefits it's 5 something a
> week and she must comlpy with their demands for information or they will
> reduce her benefit.
>
> "Toffee"  wrote in message
>
> news:6A0wi.13795$ph7.3117@newsfe5-win.ntli.net...
>
>
>
> > It's a Job Centre Plus thing, CSA won't be involved until Job Centre Plus
> > complete what's called CS1 action and pass it across to CSA.
>
> > If you're on benefits yourself, it'll be a straight £5 per week deduction
> > and it'll be taken directly from your benefits.  It can take a while
> > before Job Centre Plus start taking it from you though...
>
> > "James"  wrote in message
> >news:Rd2dnWn0vf78HF3bnZ2dnUVZ8sKlnZ2d@bt.com...
> >> Where to start ...
>
> >> Well my ex girlfriend and I had a baby whos one years old now. The csa> >> job centre have contacted her about my details which she is refusing to
> >> provide. As we have a verbal agreement between her and I and I pay her
> >> every week in cash so we don't see the need for an agency to get involved
> >> (is that nieve thinking?) ... that phoned her today requesting an
> >> interview where they will discuss her failure to give any details and
> >> reduce her benefit by 40% ... I have been made redundant recently and
> >> have just starting claiming benefits. I have no problem with paying for
> >> my children, but as we have an agreement between us can they really do
> >> this ?
>
> >> I told her it might be a lot less head ache to provide my details ?
>
> >> If she gives them my details what happens next ? will they take the money
> >> out of my benefits directly.
>
> >> Is there anyway to get them out of our lives ? (this is causing her so
> >> much upset!)
>
> >> Appreciate any advice.- Hide quoted text -
>
> - Show quoted text -

If you were both working and didn't claim benefits and had a private
agreement the CSA would leave you alone.

Being on benefits means you are owned/chased/hounded by the state. I
think it is the parent with care (PWC) being on benefits that triggers
it - not the Non Resident Parent (you).

It's a Job Centre Plus thing, CSA won't be involved until Job Centre Plus 
complete what's called CS1 action and pass it across to CSA.

If you're on benefits yourself, it'll be a straight £5 per week deduction 
and it'll be taken directly from your benefits.  It can take a while before 
Job Centre Plus start taking it from you though...

"James"  wrote in message 
news:Rd2dnWn0vf78HF3bnZ2dnUVZ8sKlnZ2d@bt.com...
> Where to start ...
>
> Well my ex girlfriend and I had a baby whos one years old now. The csa \ 
> job centre have contacted her about my details which she is refusing to 
> provide. As we have a verbal agreement between her and I and I pay her 
> every week in cash so we don't see the need for an agency to get involved 
> (is that nieve thinking?) ... that phoned her today requesting an 
> interview where they will discuss her failure to give any details and 
> reduce her benefit by 40% ... I have been made redundant recently and have 
> just starting claiming benefits. I have no problem with paying for my 
> children, but as we have an agreement between us can they really do this ?
>
> I told her it might be a lot less head ache to provide my details ?
>
> If she gives them my details what happens next ? will they take the money 
> out of my benefits directly.
>
> Is there anyway to get them out of our lives ? (this is causing her so 
> much upset!)
>
> Appreciate any advice.
>
>

As Toffes says if shes on benefits and your on benefits it's 5 something a 
week and she must comlpy with their demands for information or they will 
reduce her benefit.



"Toffee"  wrote in message 
news:6A0wi.13795$ph7.3117@newsfe5-win.ntli.net...
> It's a Job Centre Plus thing, CSA won't be involved until Job Centre Plus 
> complete what's called CS1 action and pass it across to CSA.
>
> If you're on benefits yourself, it'll be a straight £5 per week deduction 
> and it'll be taken directly from your benefits.  It can take a while 
> before Job Centre Plus start taking it from you though...
>
> "James"  wrote in message 
> news:Rd2dnWn0vf78HF3bnZ2dnUVZ8sKlnZ2d@bt.com...
>> Where to start ...
>>
>> Well my ex girlfriend and I had a baby whos one years old now. The csa \ 
>> job centre have contacted her about my details which she is refusing to 
>> provide. As we have a verbal agreement between her and I and I pay her 
>> every week in cash so we don't see the need for an agency to get involved 
>> (is that nieve thinking?) ... that phoned her today requesting an 
>> interview where they will discuss her failure to give any details and 
>> reduce her benefit by 40% ... I have been made redundant recently and 
>> have just starting claiming benefits. I have no problem with paying for 
>> my children, but as we have an agreement between us can they really do 
>> this ?
>>
>> I told her it might be a lot less head ache to provide my details ?
>>
>> If she gives them my details what happens next ? will they take the money 
>> out of my benefits directly.
>>
>> Is there anyway to get them out of our lives ? (this is causing her so 
>> much upset!)
>>
>> Appreciate any advice.
>>
>>
>
>

On Aug 13, 6:58 pm, "Fletcher"  wrote:
> As Toffes says if shes on benefits and your on benefits it's 5 something a
> week and she must comlpy with their demands for information or they will
> reduce her benefit.
>
> "Toffee"  wrote in message
>
> news:6A0wi.13795$ph7.3117@newsfe5-win.ntli.net...
>
>
>
> > It's a Job Centre Plus thing, CSA won't be involved until Job Centre Plus
> > complete what's called CS1 action and pass it across to CSA.
>
> > If you're on benefits yourself, it'll be a straight £5 per week deduction
> > and it'll be taken directly from your benefits.  It can take a while
> > before Job Centre Plus start taking it from you though...
>
> > "James"  wrote in message
> >news:Rd2dnWn0vf78HF3bnZ2dnUVZ8sKlnZ2d@bt.com...
> >> Where to start ...
>
> >> Well my ex girlfriend and I had a baby whos one years old now. The csa> >> job centre have contacted her about my details which she is refusing to
> >> provide. As we have a verbal agreement between her and I and I pay her
> >> every week in cash so we don't see the need for an agency to get involved
> >> (is that nieve thinking?) ... that phoned her today requesting an
> >> interview where they will discuss her failure to give any details and
> >> reduce her benefit by 40% ... I have been made redundant recently and
> >> have just starting claiming benefits. I have no problem with paying for
> >> my children, but as we have an agreement between us can they really do
> >> this ?
>
> >> I told her it might be a lot less head ache to provide my details ?
>
> >> If she gives them my details what happens next ? will they take the money
> >> out of my benefits directly.
>
> >> Is there anyway to get them out of our lives ? (this is causing her so
> >> much upset!)
>
> >> Appreciate any advice.- Hide quoted text -
>
> - Show quoted text -

If you were both working and didn't claim benefits and had a private
agreement the CSA would leave you alone.

Being on benefits means you are owned/chased/hounded by the state. I
think it is the parent with care (PWC) being on benefits that triggers
it - not the Non Resident Parent (you).

It's a Job Centre Plus thing, CSA won't be involved until Job Centre Plus 
complete what's called CS1 action and pass it across to CSA.

If you're on benefits yourself, it'll be a straight £5 per week deduction 
and it'll be taken directly from your benefits.  It can take a while before 
Job Centre Plus start taking it from you though...

"James"  wrote in message 
news:Rd2dnWn0vf78HF3bnZ2dnUVZ8sKlnZ2d@bt.com...
> Where to start ...
>
> Well my ex girlfriend and I had a baby whos one years old now. The csa \ 
> job centre have contacted her about my details which she is refusing to 
> provide. As we have a verbal agreement between her and I and I pay her 
> every week in cash so we don't see the need for an agency to get involved 
> (is that nieve thinking?) ... that phoned her today requesting an 
> interview where they will discuss her failure to give any details and 
> reduce her benefit by 40% ... I have been made redundant recently and have 
> just starting claiming benefits. I have no problem with paying for my 
> children, but as we have an agreement between us can they really do this ?
>
> I told her it might be a lot less head ache to provide my details ?
>
> If she gives them my details what happens next ? will they take the money 
> out of my benefits directly.
>
> Is there anyway to get them out of our lives ? (this is causing her so 
> much upset!)
>
> Appreciate any advice.
>
>

As Toffes says if shes on benefits and your on benefits it's 5 something a 
week and she must comlpy with their demands for information or they will 
reduce her benefit.



"Toffee"  wrote in message 
news:6A0wi.13795$ph7.3117@newsfe5-win.ntli.net...
> It's a Job Centre Plus thing, CSA won't be involved until Job Centre Plus 
> complete what's called CS1 action and pass it across to CSA.
>
> If you're on benefits yourself, it'll be a straight £5 per week deduction 
> and it'll be taken directly from your benefits.  It can take a while 
> before Job Centre Plus start taking it from you though...
>
> "James"  wrote in message 
> news:Rd2dnWn0vf78HF3bnZ2dnUVZ8sKlnZ2d@bt.com...
>> Where to start ...
>>
>> Well my ex girlfriend and I had a baby whos one years old now. The csa \ 
>> job centre have contacted her about my details which she is refusing to 
>> provide. As we have a verbal agreement between her and I and I pay her 
>> every week in cash so we don't see the need for an agency to get involved 
>> (is that nieve thinking?) ... that phoned her today requesting an 
>> interview where they will discuss her failure to give any details and 
>> reduce her benefit by 40% ... I have been made redundant recently and 
>> have just starting claiming benefits. I have no problem with paying for 
>> my children, but as we have an agreement between us can they really do 
>> this ?
>>
>> I told her it might be a lot less head ache to provide my details ?
>>
>> If she gives them my details what happens next ? will they take the money 
>> out of my benefits directly.
>>
>> Is there anyway to get them out of our lives ? (this is causing her so 
>> much upset!)
>>
>> Appreciate any advice.
>>
>>
>
>

On Aug 13, 6:58 pm, "Fletcher"  wrote:
> As Toffes says if shes on benefits and your on benefits it's 5 something a
> week and she must comlpy with their demands for information or they will
> reduce her benefit.
>
> "Toffee"  wrote in message
>
> news:6A0wi.13795$ph7.3117@newsfe5-win.ntli.net...
>
>
>
> > It's a Job Centre Plus thing, CSA won't be involved until Job Centre Plus
> > complete what's called CS1 action and pass it across to CSA.
>
> > If you're on benefits yourself, it'll be a straight £5 per week deduction
> > and it'll be taken directly from your benefits.  It can take a while
> > before Job Centre Plus start taking it from you though...
>
> > "James"  wrote in message
> >news:Rd2dnWn0vf78HF3bnZ2dnUVZ8sKlnZ2d@bt.com...
> >> Where to start ...
>
> >> Well my ex girlfriend and I had a baby whos one years old now. The csa> >> job centre have contacted her about my details which she is refusing to
> >> provide. As we have a verbal agreement between her and I and I pay her
> >> every week in cash so we don't see the need for an agency to get involved
> >> (is that nieve thinking?) ... that phoned her today requesting an
> >> interview where they will discuss her failure to give any details and
> >> reduce her benefit by 40% ... I have been made redundant recently and
> >> have just starting claiming benefits. I have no problem with paying for
> >> my children, but as we have an agreement between us can they really do
> >> this ?
>
> >> I told her it might be a lot less head ache to provide my details ?
>
> >> If she gives them my details what happens next ? will they take the money
> >> out of my benefits directly.
>
> >> Is there anyway to get them out of our lives ? (this is causing her so
> >> much upset!)
>
> >> Appreciate any advice.- Hide quoted text -
>
> - Show quoted text -

If you were both working and didn't claim benefits and had a private
agreement the CSA would leave you alone.

Being on benefits means you are owned/chased/hounded by the state. I
think it is the parent with care (PWC) being on benefits that triggers
it - not the Non Resident Parent (you).

It's a Job Centre Plus thing, CSA won't be involved until Job Centre Plus 
complete what's called CS1 action and pass it across to CSA.

If you're on benefits yourself, it'll be a straight £5 per week deduction 
and it'll be taken directly from your benefits.  It can take a while before 
Job Centre Plus start taking it from you though...

"James"  wrote in message 
news:Rd2dnWn0vf78HF3bnZ2dnUVZ8sKlnZ2d@bt.com...
> Where to start ...
>
> Well my ex girlfriend and I had a baby whos one years old now. The csa \ 
> job centre have contacted her about my details which she is refusing to 
> provide. As we have a verbal agreement between her and I and I pay her 
> every week in cash so we don't see the need for an agency to get involved 
> (is that nieve thinking?) ... that phoned her today requesting an 
> interview where they will discuss her failure to give any details and 
> reduce her benefit by 40% ... I have been made redundant recently and have 
> just starting claiming benefits. I have no problem with paying for my 
> children, but as we have an agreement between us can they really do this ?
>
> I told her it might be a lot less head ache to provide my details ?
>
> If she gives them my details what happens next ? will they take the money 
> out of my benefits directly.
>
> Is there anyway to get them out of our lives ? (this is causing her so 
> much upset!)
>
> Appreciate any advice.
>
>

As Toffes says if shes on benefits and your on benefits it's 5 something a 
week and she must comlpy with their demands for information or they will 
reduce her benefit.



"Toffee"  wrote in message 
news:6A0wi.13795$ph7.3117@newsfe5-win.ntli.net...
> It's a Job Centre Plus thing, CSA won't be involved until Job Centre Plus 
> complete what's called CS1 action and pass it across to CSA.
>
> If you're on benefits yourself, it'll be a straight £5 per week deduction 
> and it'll be taken directly from your benefits.  It can take a while 
> before Job Centre Plus start taking it from you though...
>
> "James"  wrote in message 
> news:Rd2dnWn0vf78HF3bnZ2dnUVZ8sKlnZ2d@bt.com...
>> Where to start ...
>>
>> Well my ex girlfriend and I had a baby whos one years old now. The csa \ 
>> job centre have contacted her about my details which she is refusing to 
>> provide. As we have a verbal agreement between her and I and I pay her 
>> every week in cash so we don't see the need for an agency to get involved 
>> (is that nieve thinking?) ... that phoned her today requesting an 
>> interview where they will discuss her failure to give any details and 
>> reduce her benefit by 40% ... I have been made redundant recently and 
>> have just starting claiming benefits. I have no problem with paying for 
>> my children, but as we have an agreement between us can they really do 
>> this ?
>>
>> I told her it might be a lot less head ache to provide my details ?
>>
>> If she gives them my details what happens next ? will they take the money 
>> out of my benefits directly.
>>
>> Is there anyway to get them out of our lives ? (this is causing her so 
>> much upset!)
>>
>> Appreciate any advice.
>>
>>
>
>

On Aug 13, 6:58 pm, "Fletcher"  wrote:
> As Toffes says if shes on benefits and your on benefits it's 5 something a
> week and she must comlpy with their demands for information or they will
> reduce her benefit.
>
> "Toffee"  wrote in message
>
> news:6A0wi.13795$ph7.3117@newsfe5-win.ntli.net...
>
>
>
> > It's a Job Centre Plus thing, CSA won't be involved until Job Centre Plus
> > complete what's called CS1 action and pass it across to CSA.
>
> > If you're on benefits yourself, it'll be a straight £5 per week deduction
> > and it'll be taken directly from your benefits.  It can take a while
> > before Job Centre Plus start taking it from you though...
>
> > "James"  wrote in message
> >news:Rd2dnWn0vf78HF3bnZ2dnUVZ8sKlnZ2d@bt.com...
> >> Where to start ...
>
> >> Well my ex girlfriend and I had a baby whos one years old now. The csa> >> job centre have contacted her about my details which she is refusing to
> >> provide. As we have a verbal agreement between her and I and I pay her
> >> every week in cash so we don't see the need for an agency to get involved
> >> (is that nieve thinking?) ... that phoned her today requesting an
> >> interview where they will discuss her failure to give any details and
> >> reduce her benefit by 40% ... I have been made redundant recently and
> >> have just starting claiming benefits. I have no problem with paying for
> >> my children, but as we have an agreement between us can they really do
> >> this ?
>
> >> I told her it might be a lot less head ache to provide my details ?
>
> >> If she gives them my details what happens next ? will they take the money
> >> out of my benefits directly.
>
> >> Is there anyway to get them out of our lives ? (this is causing her so
> >> much upset!)
>
> >> Appreciate any advice.- Hide quoted text -
>
> - Show quoted text -

If you were both working and didn't claim benefits and had a private
agreement the CSA would leave you alone.

Being on benefits means you are owned/chased/hounded by the state. I
think it is the parent with care (PWC) being on benefits that triggers
it - not the Non Resident Parent (you).

It's a Job Centre Plus thing, CSA won't be involved until Job Centre Plus 
complete what's called CS1 action and pass it across to CSA.

If you're on benefits yourself, it'll be a straight £5 per week deduction 
and it'll be taken directly from your benefits.  It can take a while before 
Job Centre Plus start taking it from you though...

"James"  wrote in message 
news:Rd2dnWn0vf78HF3bnZ2dnUVZ8sKlnZ2d@bt.com...
> Where to start ...
>
> Well my ex girlfriend and I had a baby whos one years old now. The csa \ 
> job centre have contacted her about my details which she is refusing to 
> provide. As we have a verbal agreement between her and I and I pay her 
> every week in cash so we don't see the need for an agency to get involved 
> (is that nieve thinking?) ... that phoned her today requesting an 
> interview where they will discuss her failure to give any details and 
> reduce her benefit by 40% ... I have been made redundant recently and have 
> just starting claiming benefits. I have no problem with paying for my 
> children, but as we have an agreement between us can they really do this ?
>
> I told her it might be a lot less head ache to provide my details ?
>
> If she gives them my details what happens next ? will they take the money 
> out of my benefits directly.
>
> Is there anyway to get them out of our lives ? (this is causing her so 
> much upset!)
>
> Appreciate any advice.
>
>

As Toffes says if shes on benefits and your on benefits it's 5 something a 
week and she must comlpy with their demands for information or they will 
reduce her benefit.



"Toffee"  wrote in message 
news:6A0wi.13795$ph7.3117@newsfe5-win.ntli.net...
> It's a Job Centre Plus thing, CSA won't be involved until Job Centre Plus 
> complete what's called CS1 action and pass it across to CSA.
>
> If you're on benefits yourself, it'll be a straight £5 per week deduction 
> and it'll be taken directly from your benefits.  It can take a while 
> before Job Centre Plus start taking it from you though...
>
> "James"  wrote in message 
> news:Rd2dnWn0vf78HF3bnZ2dnUVZ8sKlnZ2d@bt.com...
>> Where to start ...
>>
>> Well my ex girlfriend and I had a baby whos one years old now. The csa \ 
>> job centre have contacted her about my details which she is refusing to 
>> provide. As we have a verbal agreement between her and I and I pay her 
>> every week in cash so we don't see the need for an agency to get involved 
>> (is that nieve thinking?) ... that phoned her today requesting an 
>> interview where they will discuss her failure to give any details and 
>> reduce her benefit by 40% ... I have been made redundant recently and 
>> have just starting claiming benefits. I have no problem with paying for 
>> my children, but as we have an agreement between us can they really do 
>> this ?
>>
>> I told her it might be a lot less head ache to provide my details ?
>>
>> If she gives them my details what happens next ? will they take the money 
>> out of my benefits directly.
>>
>> Is there anyway to get them out of our lives ? (this is causing her so 
>> much upset!)
>>
>> Appreciate any advice.
>>
>>
>
>

On Aug 13, 6:58 pm, "Fletcher"  wrote:
> As Toffes says if shes on benefits and your on benefits it's 5 something a
> week and she must comlpy with their demands for information or they will
> reduce her benefit.
>
> "Toffee"  wrote in message
>
> news:6A0wi.13795$ph7.3117@newsfe5-win.ntli.net...
>
>
>
> > It's a Job Centre Plus thing, CSA won't be involved until Job Centre Plus
> > complete what's called CS1 action and pass it across to CSA.
>
> > If you're on benefits yourself, it'll be a straight £5 per week deduction
> > and it'll be taken directly from your benefits.  It can take a while
> > before Job Centre Plus start taking it from you though...
>
> > "James"  wrote in message
> >news:Rd2dnWn0vf78HF3bnZ2dnUVZ8sKlnZ2d@bt.com...
> >> Where to start ...
>
> >> Well my ex girlfriend and I had a baby whos one years old now. The csa> >> job centre have contacted her about my details which she is refusing to
> >> provide. As we have a verbal agreement between her and I and I pay her
> >> every week in cash so we don't see the need for an agency to get involved
> >> (is that nieve thinking?) ... that phoned her today requesting an
> >> interview where they will discuss her failure to give any details and
> >> reduce her benefit by 40% ... I have been made redundant recently and
> >> have just starting claiming benefits. I have no problem with paying for
> >> my children, but as we have an agreement between us can they really do
> >> this ?
>
> >> I told her it might be a lot less head ache to provide my details ?
>
> >> If she gives them my details what happens next ? will they take the money
> >> out of my benefits directly.
>
> >> Is there anyway to get them out of our lives ? (this is causing her so
> >> much upset!)
>
> >> Appreciate any advice.- Hide quoted text -
>
> - Show quoted text -

If you were both working and didn't claim benefits and had a private
agreement the CSA would leave you alone.

Being on benefits means you are owned/chased/hounded by the state. I
think it is the parent with care (PWC) being on benefits that triggers
it - not the Non Resident Parent (you).

It's a Job Centre Plus thing, CSA won't be involved until Job Centre Plus 
complete what's called CS1 action and pass it across to CSA.

If you're on benefits yourself, it'll be a straight £5 per week deduction 
and it'll be taken directly from your benefits.  It can take a while before 
Job Centre Plus start taking it from you though...

"James"  wrote in message 
news:Rd2dnWn0vf78HF3bnZ2dnUVZ8sKlnZ2d@bt.com...
> Where to start ...
>
> Well my ex girlfriend and I had a baby whos one years old now. The csa \ 
> job centre have contacted her about my details which she is refusing to 
> provide. As we have a verbal agreement between her and I and I pay her 
> every week in cash so we don't see the need for an agency to get involved 
> (is that nieve thinking?) ... that phoned her today requesting an 
> interview where they will discuss her failure to give any details and 
> reduce her benefit by 40% ... I have been made redundant recently and have 
> just starting claiming benefits. I have no problem with paying for my 
> children, but as we have an agreement between us can they really do this ?
>
> I told her it might be a lot less head ache to provide my details ?
>
> If she gives them my details what happens next ? will they take the money 
> out of my benefits directly.
>
> Is there anyway to get them out of our lives ? (this is causing her so 
> much upset!)
>
> Appreciate any advice.
>
>