Flower of romance wrote:

> I never said i was nice. I said I am not the person I was. whether that is a
> good thing or bad things os for the fates to decide. ;) In truth I blow hot
> and cold a bit.

Yeah, but you pretty much implied the collective "we" of URP are nice
with your post about how we don't fight and stuff - we're not, we're
just real people, with real niggles, just like the rest of the world
(though not all of us always admit to the being people lark ;)).

Look, we can understand if you wanna be here, fine, we do to (want to
be here I mean, that's why we keep being here), but if you're gonna be
here, come in as who you are, instead of trying to be a different
entity every time. You may as well 'cause it doesn't work out for you
with being the different entity lark anyway, Mrs. Cake always gets her
man. Be proud of who you are, instead of trying to be someone nice and
new every time, because it doesn't wash. And if you piss us off and/or
say something stupid, we'll call you on it, just like we call each
other on anything that's stupid, or that pisses us off (go look
through the archives, I've had plenty of bollockings for idiocy). If
we do call you on stuff, don't get your back up and come up all
defensive, learn from it, and talk about it, and ask WHY it pissed
people off, or WHERE we think you're being stupid. Trust me, you can
learn a lot from living in here.

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trin