Just to try to complete the picture,

Oxana Malaya teaches us the power of repetition / imprinting / brain
wiring.

If we condemn our adolescents to have their initial sexual
experiences
in the concrete jungle and the hell of peer pressure and bullying and
taunting from other adelescent imbeciles out there, well then we
human
beings are not much good at dealing with our own human nature and its
implications.


The mark of a SANE being is to have the capacity to stand back and
examine his or her activity.............


................... and evaluate his or her activity....


........ and then *correct course* .................. if the activity
is destructive.


For the past eleven thousand years, humanity has been completely
lacking in that capacity for critical evaluation and *course
correction* ...........


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The explanation is there:


*the psychology of the survivalist emergency*
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And it's a self-perpetuating *collective mental illness* .


I can only hope to prompt you a little bit in the right direction.


Think again of Oxana Malaya.


What - exactly - do you want teenagers, your sons and your daughters,
to be IMITATING and REPEATING?


........the inarticulate, and often emotionally devasating, ignorant
exploration of sexuality in the bushes or the back of a car or in a
slimy, grimy corner of an abandoned warehouse?


OR -


to have their emerging adult sexuality lovingly accepted and nurtured
in the sanctuary and security and safety of the extended family,
accepting and affirming their emerging adult sexuality, and teaching
them decency and mutual respect and self confidence in their dealings
with others...... thus setting the pattern of decency and mutual
respect which the young people will forever after IMITATE and REPEAT,
Oxana Malaya style?


Which do you prefer?


SANITY or INSANITY?


SURVIVALIST MODE or GARDEN OF EDEN?


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Readers of George Orwell's "1984" will immediately relate to the
notion that
PLEASURE = ABUSE


NURTURING CHIILDREN = ABUSE


PROTECTING CHILDREN = ABUSE


(not quite so simple, as we can't change our laws and societal
arrangements quickly. Still, to recognise the Orwellian nature of our
societal arrangements and the contradictions of the paedo panic, is a
good first step back toward our ancient sanity, decency and purity of
eleven thousand years ago.)
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Helpful links:
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Oxana:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lMbf8R9BPyg

breastfeeding-lovemaking:
http://www.womanthouartgod.com/breastfeedinglovemaking.php

The Homophobic Hate campaign by English Churches Housing Group
(ECHG),Hammersmith & Fulham Council and The Metropolitan Police is
still continuing – at the moment my tormentors think it is acceptable
to run a Hate campaign and they do not think they have done anything
wrong.

The authorities know who I am, but they think it is acceptable for a
group of people to run a homophobic hate campaign.

I have to deal with a lot of hate from my tormentors – both, major and
minor incidences – at the moment, my tormentors are enjoying
themselves enormously and they are hoping I will loose my temper –
when I do get an investigation into this hate campaign - most people
will be horrified by the hate I have to suffer.

My Tormentors take an enormous pleasure in making my life a living
hell - my Tormentors see me as a soft target. I am not scared of them
nor am I afraid of them - I will get a full criminal investigation
into this hate campaign - on my terms and I will not shut-up until I
get to the bottom of everything these criminals have done - I mean
everything and in the process I will clear my name which my Tormentors
have elegantly blackened.

When the whole truth comes out of what has happened - you will find
that I am a Law-abiding citizen and a veteran of the Falklands
Campaign.