http://www.womanthouartgod.com/breastfeedinglovemaking.php

It's not easy for me to read anything like the articles at the above
link, but I managed to get through it today.

As my readers will anticipate, what my soul was silently sceaming as I
read those articles was:

"But what about the baby's anus and the mother's anus?"

I know, both intellectually and from my Practical Reparenting
experiences, that the act of cleaning your baby's anus, which
unavoidably gives your baby intense sexual pleasure in his/her anus,
is a much more intense and vivid and formative experience than
breastfeeding.

The two go together. And everything that author argues in relation to
breastfeeding applies similarly to what I have said about the infant's
experience of sexual pleasure in his/her anus, and the infant's
unavoidable (remember Oxana Malaya) need to give the mother the same
sexual pleasure in her anus as the mother gave to the baby in his/her
anus..... in particular, your baby longs to see the smile of
satisfaction on Mummy's face, as the baby returns the mother's love,
giving the mother the same delightfully pleasurable sensations in her
anus as she was giving to her baby in her baby's anus (see
illustrations in "Your Baby is not a Sack of Potatoes, Mrs !").

A major difference between me and the author of the articles at
http://www.womanthouartgod.com/breastfeedinglovemaking.php
is that they are quoting other authors voluminously, and giving the
impression that because someone else said it, that makes it more
believable.
I have not read many books, just some of the right ones, including
Hans Ruesch, Immanuel Velikovsky, Paul Brunton, Robin Norwood, John
Bradshaw, Alice Miller. These authors helped me to arrive at the
present position of enlightenment. But apart from that, the truth is
inside me.
I don't need any "expert" or "scientist" to tell me that the pleasure
your baby feels in his anus when you caress your baby's anus to clean
it for him/her, and the way we deal with that pleasure and its
implications - is the MAJOR KEY to healing our tragic
civilisation.....

Also, the authors at that site omit the forbidden subject of what the
geological record tells us.

Our collective mental illness has little to do with the 'hunter-
gatherer' phase of history.

Our collective mental illness is all about *THE PSYCHOLOGY OF THE
SURVIVALIST EMERGENCY* .

That is where the shame surrounding our anuses comes from - the
RATIONING OF LOVE in the forgotten survivalist emergencies.

If we love, we will be no good at inter-tribal war.
So love had to be rationed to enable our immature, unevolved ancestors
to get trough those forgotten survivalist emergencies indicated in the
geological record, and the rationing of love to produce hate-crazed
soldiers must begin with corrupting the mother-infant relationship.

OK, I've done what I could to help you to see it.
I hope you straighten yourselves out some time......

.... please don't wait too long....

.... because I have to live in your world too.....

...... and you have no right to drag me down with you.

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http://www.womanthouartgod.com/breastfeedinglovemaking.php

Your Baby is not a Sack of Potatoes, Mrs !
http://docs.google.com/Doc?id=dddp6bt4_121hsrds9ww

The Shame
http://docs.google.com/Doc?id=dddp6bt4_69r8r9d5d2

Practical Reparenting - One Step at a Time
http://docs.google.com/Doc?id=dddp6bt4_144hq6nhqgd

THE GREATEST THING
YOU WILL EVER LEARN
IS JUST TO LOVE
AND BE LOVED IN RETURN

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What a terrible tragedy it is that the human female is incapable of
applying that basic principle to her dealings with her babies.

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"......AND TO LOVE IN RETURN."

The human infant is not allowed *to love in return* by his emotionally
crippled, mentally ill, human female mother.
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Oxana Malaya supplies an important KEY to healing our tragic
civilisation:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lMbf8R9BPyg

The loving, intimate, pleasurable caresses that take place between
every mother and her baby, as articulated most vividly in the writings
of Niles Newton (breastfeeding) and Peter Newman (anal eroticism), are
for repeating throughout our lives, and not for demonising and
suppressing.
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Oxana Malaya demonstrates the intense impulse we all had to imitate
and repeat our early formative experiences.
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Every mother in the world is required by present societal rules to
prohibit her babies from imitating and repeating the loving harmony
and delightful physical pleasures of early infancy.
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The clear implication, well noted by every one of us when we were
babies - to our consternation - is that what mother and child did for
each other in early infancy is being reclassified as immoral and dirty
and shameful, therefore not to be imitated and repeated - although
Nature decrees that our early formative experiences must be imitated
and repeated.
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If we declare effectively that what mothers do to their babies in the
first few months of life is dirty and shameful and immoral and must
not be imitated and repeated - then we are clearly a collection of
brain-dead, scatterbrained imbeciles, all six billion of us.
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And that is exactly the case.

We have had eleven thousand years of this universal, species-wide,
planet-wide imbecility.
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I say stop it.

I say make a start at the healing process, at recovery from our
collective mental illness.

And I invite all of you to join me in saying the same.
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We can't change overnight.
And we should not make any immediate changes in the way we relate to
babies and young people.

But at least we adults can all join together to declare that we all
intend now to make a start at the task of putting an end to our eleven
thousand years of imbecility.
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Nature Boy - Nat 'King' Cole:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Iq0XJCJ1Srw

Nature Boy - Bobby Darin:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sPRMQZ59pZo

Oxana Malaya - inevitablity of imitation and repetition:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lMbf8R9BPyg

What your baby is impelled to imitate and repeat:
(1) Niles Newton on the sexual nature of breastfeeding:
http://groups.google.com/group/alt.uk.law/msg/fde3e9567813bc7e?&q=col...

What your baby is impelled to imitate and repeat:
(2) Peter Newman on anal eroticism in the mother-infant relationship:
http://docs.google.com/Doc?id=dddp6bt4_121hsrds9ww
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THE GREATEST THING
YOU WILL EVER LEARN
IS JUST TO LOVE
AND BE LOVED IN RETURN
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Iq0XJCJ1Srw